This problem occurs under either of the following situations.
- The processing of meeting requests has been disabled for your mailbox in the Exchange Calendar Assistant
In this situation, if you use the following cmdlet in the Exchange Management Shell, you will see the value of the AutomateProcessing parameter is set to None.
- Exchange 2010
Get-CalendarProcessing <alias> |FL AutomateProcessing
 - Exchange 2007
Get-MailboxCalendarSettings <alias> |FL AutomateProcessing 
 
NOTE: In some scenarios for user mailboxes, the 
AutomateProcessing parameter has been seen to have a value of 
AutoAccept, even though the 
AutoAccept value can only be applied to 
Resource mailboxes. In this configuration, there have been reports of automatic deletion of e-mail messages sent to the mailbox. If the output from the above cmdlet shows the 
AutomateProcessing parameter value is set to 
AutoAccept on a user mailbox, use the solution in the 
Resolution section of this article to reset the AutomateProcessing parameter back to the default value (AutoUpdate).
- The AddNewRequestsTentatively parameter is set to $False
In this situation, if you use the following cmdlet in the Exchange Management Shell, you will see the value of the AddNewRequestsTentatively parameter.- Exchange 2010
Get-CalendarProcessing <alias> |FL AddNewRequestsTentatively
 - Exchange 2007
Get-MailboxCalendarSettings <alias> |FL AddNewRequestsTentatively